Excessive anger is one of the biggest reasons for marital dispute and it is suggested that one of the partners needs to stay calm during a heated argument so that things can calm down for the better.
The fact that anger in relationships is very common and there could be end reasons to fuel anger makes it all that necessary for one of the partners to exercise presence of mind and stay calm.
“Our frequency of sex has drastically dropped after the birth our eight-month-old son. My husband keeps cribbing over it and we often end up fighting the issue. I fear if this situation continues for long, he might look for options outside our marriage to fulfill his sexual desires,” exhorts Garima Chauhan, a web designer.
Expert Tip : “Absence of sex can often lead to dissatisfaction amongst partners. It even has the potential to land your marriage in rough waters. It is very important to communicate your feelings of sexual inadequacy to your partner frankly. Together try and explore the reasons that may be putting your partner off sex. If need be, consult an expert in the matter,” Mahima says.
Suspicion of Infidelity
Mandeep Singh is banker married to his girlfriend of five years, Shriya who works for an event management company. Things were going smooth between the two of them, until Shriya started coming home very late from work. “I noticed that she was returning home late regularly. I started suspecting her, because I was getting unsatisfactory answers for her late comings. As a result I started yelling at her, blaming her of betrayal.”
Expert Tip : “Be careful while flinging insults at your partner. Insults whether justified or not have a way of creating disaster and causing friction in a relationship. Take time to identify what’s bothering you and put your thoughts together in a descriptive manner which will be easy for your partner to understand,” suggests Anu Goel, a relationship expert.
It is important for the married couple to realize that compassion and intimacy are two virtues that should always be emphasized upon along with respect for each other.